Self Motivation-How To Find Yourself Again
July 24, 2007
We all come to a stage in life where we are so busy juggling our lives and career that we lose ourselves in it. This is not gender based. Many fathers are so busy looking out for the well-being of the family, fulfilling every need of their wife and kids that one day when they look in the mirror, they don’t recognize themselves.
Women are expected to lose their identity and manage their family even though she too works equally hard in her career. But when she arrives home, she changes her role instantly from the career woman to a cook, making dinner, then a teacher to check on her child’s lessons, then a housekeeper to clean up for the day. The tasks are endless and it is really difficult to prioritize because everything seems so crucial to make life complete.
People realize that they have lost themselves when they get older and the children have gone their own way. Suddenly there is a void, and they don’t know how to live anymore. Loneliness can be dreadful. Self motivation can be tricky but all it needs is determination. There are lots of books available by various prominent authors. To find yourself again, you always need to remember that age is never a barrier. It becomes one if you make it so. Engage in activities that you had missed out earlier. Go out and seek new avenues to enrich your mind and body.
The answer lies inside all of us. It is just that we don’t reflect within. Mediation really helps to bring out and tune with the innermost feelings. In the end, only you can live the life you always wanted, no one can do it for you. So take the first step today.
©Nayna, 2007. All Rights Reserved.
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